Hey Divas and Divos! Can you believe that we are done with 1st Quarter of 2016?! WOW! It flew by me. Well here are some of my financial highlights for the first quarter: Pulled my credit report. My credit score … Continue reading
God is generous to us so why not help others? You know the cliche saying “To Whom much is given; much is required.” Well it rings true in your finances. This book chapter highlights the responsibility of prosperity. We have a responsibility to help others financially if we can. It doesn’t necessarily have to be money. It can be time. When was the last time you babysit your cousin or friend’s kids?
My thought process toward giving was based on a person’s effort. I like to help people who have made an effort to help themselves. I have discovered in this chapter that I have the wrong attitude. Think about the times God has blessed us financially even when we didn’t deserve it?! I know he has bailed me out financially many days. (Thank you Lord!!) That is the same approach we need to have with people. You know that begging cousin that always need $5 and you know they are not going to give it back?! GIVE IT TO THEM ANYWAY!! I know… I know… Easier said than done. We are all a work in progress! (I know I am!!) God will give it back to you ten-fold!
This chapter also opened my eyes to the word “miser“. Do you or someone you know hold on to money for dear life? Do you or someone you know making your family miserable with their cheapness? You or them might be a miser. A miser use money for their own selfish good. Miser have a great fear about not having enough. You must pray for the miser so that they can rest in knowing that God will provide all their needs.
Challenge: Think about one person you can help financially and DO IT!!
Day 2 is about the Promise of Prosperity. We want God to bless us with wealth but we are not willing to submit to change. Our finances are the foundation of which everything is based on. Sometimes we are so busy chasing money that we don’t even realize we are running further away from GOD and His Will. This day examines commandments that we have broken in regards to our finances. Below are some of my offenses:
You shall not make for yourself or things an idol.
I have made an idol out of clothes and concert tickets. Sometimes I wouldn’t give offering just to ensure that I got those front row tickets or the latest outfit.
Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy.
I have chosen to work on the Sabbath in order to make some extra money.
You shall not murder.
I have said that “I will kill for a pair of Christian Louboutins or Prada shoes. Words have Power!! Use them wisely!!
You shall not covet your neighbor’s house.
There have been times where I social media stalked (Yes, I am woman enough to say it!) someone just to see their latest purchase (In my defense, there person was materialistic and posted everything they ever bought!) I know…. I know… That still doesn’t make it right. I’m a work in progress.
Day 2: SUCCESS! I redeemed my Christmas gift from co-worker and got a FREE LUNCH! Therefore, I didn’t have to buy anything. It’s the little things in life. However, I got an email from Nordstrom’s that the shoes that I waitlisted are in stock…. Le Sigh!!
Pray for my strength!
DIVA DOLLARS IS IN THE BUILDING!!!!!!! I am nervous and excited about doing this fast. I want and need to do better financially. It really shouldn’t be this way (I have a finance degree for crying out loud!) I mad silly mistakes (as most twenty-somethings do!) and incurred unnecessary debt. This year, I will become a better steward of my coins. I am approaching my thirties and being financially unstable is not cute. So I will begin my journey on this financial fast. It will not be easy. Anything worth having is not easy to obtain.
- What I learned from today’s chapter: God wants us to be prosperous and make wise decisions about money. In order for us to prosper, we submit to God’s will.
- What was hard about the fast today: Nothing..Really. Except I spent about $5 in extra moves on Candy Crush… I think I may have a problem 😦
- I am going to apply what I learned in the following: “P.A.Y. Regime” Pray, Act, and Yield
Join me on a 21 day Financial Fast! My sister recommended this book to me a year ago. I put on my bucket reading list. I have now picked it up and will began my journey. The author, Michelle Singletary … Continue reading
As I reflect back on the holiday season, I think of the major money that was spent. The money spent on buying Christmas gifts for families, co-workers, friends etc. We as people spend a ridiculous amount of money on items that we barely wear or use. This is very true in the African-American community. African-Americans spend almost $1 trillion dollars annually. The buying power of African-Americans was compared to that of a small country (See graphic).
What do we spend it on? As far as I can tell, the money is spent on frivolous things such as clothes, cars, tvs, and other electronics. Not to sound cliché but we try to keep up with the Joneses’. Who the heck are the Joneses anyway? Could it be our Caucasian counterparts, basketball wives, or rappers? It grinds my gears to see women buying Christian Louboutin shoes with a Pre-Paid Rush card or guys tweeting pics of their Louis Vuitton receipts then texting me if I know of any jobs openings?!?! Something is not adding up! Disclaimer: I am guilty of conspicuous consumption as well. The question is why? It seems like material things symbolizes success or progress in our community. Is our self-worth determined by the size of our rims or the logo on our belt buckle? The media plays a part in our excessive habits. Rappers, video vixens, and thoughts of popping bottles and shopping sprees is seeping into our minds to a point where we perceive it as reality. We must realize that rap videos and reality shows are selling us a dream. A dream that is unattainable on annual salary of $36,000.
Brown Consumerism wouldn’t alarm me as much if I didn’t look at the wealth gap between African-Americans and other races. If we were savings as much as were spending, then I would not have a problem. The sad truth is that we spend more than we save. A LOT MORE! According to Census Bureau Information below, African-Americans net worth is 20x less than our Caucasian and Asian counterparts. That is alarming and disturbing.
What happened to saving more and spending less? Think about the generations that came before us. Ideally, Grandma and Grandpa worked hard to buy a home in a decent neighborhood, worked 30+ years at a blue collar job, and then retired with a nice retirement nest-egg. Is that idea not cool now? Ask yourself, do you have a savings or money market account? If not, why? We as a community need to get back to those solid financial principles that our grandparents instilled in order to create wealth for ourselves and our families.
This is why my blog and other personal finance blogs are so important. Imagine if the $1 trillion that we spend on material things was used for savings and investments. We would be a force to be reckoned with! We must share helpful financial information and create wealth for ourselves. Join me on my journey to becoming financially stable. No, I am not trying to sell you anything. I am just sharing my financial story with you in return that you will tell someone else so they can live a debt-free life.
I entitled my blog “Diva Dollars” because this blog will serve 3 purposes. First, it will document my journey to financial freedom. NO…….. I am not trying to be a millionaire! (Although, that wouldn’t be so bad!) I just want to be comfortable with my life and be able to do what I want without thinking about how it will affect my bank account tomorrow. It will also help to educate others about financial literacy. (one of my many passions!)
Second, I will highlight some pertinent financial/economic news. That may sound boring to most but as a economic graduate student, it screams cool in my book! The global economy has a profound effect on a person’s financial well-being than most people think.
Lastly, I will give some awesome investing and financial tips along the way. I want to be your financial resource. Ms. Diva Dollars will NEVER put out bogus info (BELIEVE THAT!) I am firm believer in doing your due diligence and checking references. You’ve probably heard some of these things from Suze Orman or Jim Cramer but it will be so much cooler getting the info from me. 😉
Well if you got this far in reading……then you are ready to join in my quest for debt-freeness!! (I know that’s a word but so what?!)
The most important thing to know is that I want to share my financial story so people who come after me do not make the same mistakes that I made.
Thanks for reading! Welcome to Diva Dollar Land!!!!!!!